What place in the world do you never want to visit? Why?

This is yet another interesting query. I like many, am going the abstract route here. I will never ever ever ever ever (lots of evers lol) fall in love with a narcissist ever again. No  amount of love, sacrifice, time, or anything, will make them turn around and love you back. They’re just not capable of it. 

Unfortunately in my younger years I did not know or enforce (boundaries) my true worth and as a result I spent the better part of 30 years in three long (8-10 years each) serious (2 marriages and 1 long engagement) relationships. All three were narcissists in different ways but the results were the same (A broken heart and wallet at the relationship’s end).

Now after a lot of healing and soul searching (2-3 years several books read and journals written) I know my value, have self love, and some firm healthy boundaries, to assure that I never go back to those toxic soul destroying relationships.

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