List the people you admire and look to for advice…
I have many people I look to for advice. I have some very dear friends I’ve known for a number of years. I trust them and their judgment and that they’ll be frank with me.
I have definitely turned to family for similar reasons as friends as trust and honesty are present as well.
Lastly, I trust my intuition and judgement when encountering changes and challenges in my life. I augment that with the knowledge I’ve learned from experience and the advice of trusted family and friends.
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Anthony’s Crazy Love and Life Lessons in Empathy 
When I have a big problem I look at my dogs or cats and learn from them. Everything is scaled down. Even when I had cancer and was operated on, I learned to stay calm from my kitten. I was not and am not afraid of death, I see it as a natural thing. So when I need advice I look at animals, nature, clouds. We human beings often complicate our lives and make everything more complicated and difficult but instead we can remain calm like a lizard or humble like a sparrow or shout like a gorilla, depending on the case. I had problems expressing my anger because I was abused as a child, from 4 to 10 years old, and therefore I drew and still today I continue to vent my black anger with painting. But for everything else I dance and sing and do what an animal does following its own nature. I am a Therian. 😁
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Well said and I hope your cancer is long gone by the way. 😊
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Yes, I had a thyroidectomy. I now take thyroid hormones via medications. Now I’m fine 😄
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Yay 😊
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