Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow.

I past decision I made that has forced more growth than a good part of my life before was to leave and divorce my most recent lesson (ex wife).

It was a toxic relationship pretty much from the start. Loving a covert narcissist will really crush your very existence down to your soul itself. Finding your way out I’ve analogized as similar to trying to find your way out of a casino very difficult and you get lost for a long time.

Leaving meant not saying goodbye to many people I really cared about deeply and missed this day. However, divorce is ugly and vindictive. People will use children, grandchildren, and other relatives and friends against you.

Leaving met embracing a ton of change I’d say at least 10 or 15 significant changes in my life since an including leaving and divorcing my most recent ex-wife. And that is the point of this response, change.

I have been through more change in the last 27 months that I have in probably the 50 years before that. Immense growth immense opportunity for success and greatness and failure all at the same time my mantra throughout this process “just keep going “.

The greater the change, the greater the challenge, the greater the reward. A lot of this journey was pretty vertical, but that’s where the changes are and I would do it again the same way. Taking control of your life and happiness is something we all have to do and sometimes we have to take very drastic steps to achieve it so lots and lots of change.

Thank you for reading until next time, adieu.

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