What fears have you overcome and how?

One big fear I’m still trying to overcome is that the first 50 or so years of my life a lot of them were a waste.
I married two narcissistic women, engaged to a third. I gave them 26 years of my life and it was all in toxic relationships. I’ll never get those back. So that’s my fear that I wasted half my life so far.
On the other hand, everything happens for a reason, and I have to believe it was all part of my journey to become who I am right now. I’m the best person I’ve ever been, and I don’t know if I would be if I hadn’t gone through all that.
So I guess I am conquering my fear that it was a waste those hard years.
Thanks for reading as always have a great rest of your Sunday.
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