Below is my brainstorm list along with reassurances to myself as I prepared to make a grand exodus out of the most toxic relationship of my entire life. Planned and executed over just 8 days…(February 2022).

Todo for New Life

-Get new bank acct.

-Make arrangements for direct deposit for final checks to go there.

-Get passport.

-Speak to LDSS see if the writing gig can continue.

-interview for job at Joel’s work.

-order new debit card for current acct.

-notify post office to close PO Box.

-cash $250 check from mom and pop for bd to get to Cali.

-refill all prescriptions that I can.

-pack suitcase and gym bag for trip.

-leave Thursday night if at all possible or early Friday.

-Try and get close to 5k altogether, see if you can bill a lot for final LDSS check.

-New cell service, or sim and new #.

-Car insurance.

-Register car in Cali.

-pay Feb car pmt.

-change address for LDSS and NHV.

-change address for BofA.

-build 2 laptops for Pima.

-tell Curtis that Pap wants their desktop back build new LAS?

-turn in door card at gym.

-breathe it’s going to be ok, everything is.

4 days to go, man, you got this!!!!!

-aaa